Here is an endless cycle, the dizzying effects of feeling sad, having the blues, being depressed, or whatever you call it – it sucks the energy right out of you. Without that energy, you can’t accomplish what you want. You are exhausted and will engage in busywork, meaningless things like lying around watching television or playing around on social media sites for hours on end instead of accomplish what you really need to accomplish: work, household chores, errands, important phone calls, homework, studying, spending quality time with your kids…

Depression is constantly sustaining itself. It exhausts you, prevents you from doing what needs to be done, making you more depressed because you feel like a worthless, lazy slob who can’t get anything done, can’t do anything right, which makes you more depressed. It, at the very least, sustains that feeling of depression.
How do you overcome it? Push through the bad feelings and do your best to accomplish what needs to be done every single day. Each day, try to do a little more, and if you can’t or don’t, try again later or tomorrow. Eventually, you may come to realize that you feel good about yourself again because of those little accomplishments, which will lend to greater accomplishments and/or a general feeling of self-worth.
In addition, it’s accepting our shortcomings and realizing that we aren’t perfect, we aren’t supposed to be, and it’s okay not to be!
At least, that’s how I feel. Maybe I’m projecting my feelings onto you.
Now, let’s see if I can take my own advice.
Depression sucks! I know how it feels and living with someone who has depression….very difficult…needs to be very strong…
@Health Rookie – I often don’t want to tell my husband what is going on, because I don’t want to burden him. It also starts to feel like an excuse for not having things done, even though it’s really the reason why nothing got done that particular day. “I had no energy. I was exhausted all day.” or “I was feeling really bummed out all day long.” It’s been happening more frequently lately as well. Perhaps it’s time to talk to the doctor about it.
But yeah, I think it takes a very strong person to be able to go through that with someone they love, especially to live with them and share a life together. And we have two children. My husband is amazing. I can sometimes tell that it wears on him when I have anxiety attacks, especially if he’s dealing with his own stress. It’s hard, and neither of us is perfect, but we do pretty good all things considered.
interesting, thanks